Typically, when you arrive, we'll start with a chat where I'll ask about your experiences, curiosities, and any kinks you're interested in exploring. If you're unsure about specific desires, I might inquire about how you'd like to feel during the session and then offer suggestions based on your responses. We'll also cover safety and consent, discussing whether I can leave any marks, any injuries, illnesses, triggers, or traumas you need to disclose, and we'll establish safe words.

Once the session begins, I'll take full control, so you won't need to worry about anything – you're in good hands! For our communication during the session, we'll utilize a traffic light safe word system:

• Green signifies that everything is going well, and you're comfortable with the current activities. It indicates a desire to continue without any changes or interruptions.

• Yellow is a more cautionary word. When you say "yellow," it indicates that you're becoming uncomfortable or nearing your limits. It prompts a check-in and a possible adjustment in the intensity or pace of the activities.

• Red is used when you want an immediate stop to all activities. It's a clear signal that you need things to halt right away for any reason.

During impact or play that might be painful, I'll ask you to rate your pain level on a scale from 1 to 10, checking in regularly and adjusting as needed.

The ultimate aim is to guide you into a state of subspace or trance, where you can relax, let go, and be fully present in the moment. After the session, My priority is to guide you gently out of subspace, ensuring a smooth transition back to your normal state. This is called aftercare. I'll offer you water, a comforting hug, and the opportunity for a relaxed chat. This post-session care is aimed at making sure you're comfortable and able to return to a state of normalcy after the intense experiences of our session.

When completing my booking form, you'll notice various session duration options. For those new to our sessions, I highly recommend choosing 1.5 hours. Drawing from My extensive experience with hundreds of clients, I've observed a distinct pattern in the flow and quality of our sessions.

In one-hour sessions, there's a tendency for things to feel rushed and somewhat impersonal. We engage in a brief exchange of small talk, I gather essential information about your health and boundaries, we delve into our activities, and then we must make room for aftercare – all within the confines of a single hour. This can create a sense of hurriedness, akin to a quick in-and-out encounter. While this timeframe suits specific scenarios, such as focusing on a particular kink like foot worship or spanking, it can feel somewhat abrupt when aiming to construct a complete scene, guide you into subspace, and ensure a gentle return within just an hour.

My intention is not to rush through sessions, trying to accommodate as many clients as possible within a short time frame. Opting for 1.5 hours provides the necessary space for Me to ask pertinent questions, gain insight into your desires on a deeper level, and allow the scene to breathe, and the tension to marinate and develop naturally. It transforms the encounter into a genuine experience rather than a mere transaction, where you select kinks as if from a menu.

This duration also grants Me the creative freedom to seamlessly intertwine your desires, infuse surprise and novelty, and craft a personalized encounter that truly resonates with you. My objective is to create meaningful, customized experiences, and that's why 1.5 hours is My minimum session length as of 2024.

I hope this explanation sheds light on the reasoning behind My recommendation and underscores my commitment to delivering exceptional, tailored encounters.

My availability varies from week to week because I have other commitments outside of this profession. This is why booking in advance is essential. I aim to accommodate your schedule and can generally be available on weekdays and weekends between 9:00 am and 11:00 pm in either Manhattan or Brooklyn.

When completing My booking form, please offer a selection of specific dates or days within the upcoming two weeks, along with time windows. This approach ensures that I can provide you with a range of options that align with both your preferences and My schedule, increasing the likelihood of finding a suitable appointment time.

Screening is an essential safety protocol I implement with all clients prior to our meeting. While I wholeheartedly strive to provide a secure environment for you to explore your desires, it's equally imperative for Me to establish a sense of safety for Myself. This entails identifying the individuals I'll be in the room with, achieved either through the verification of ID or by obtaining positive references from other reputable providers.

I completely understand that there can be various concerns for potential clients, especially given that BDSM, while slowly becoming less taboo, still carries a certain level of societal stigma. I, too, have personal reasons for not showing My face online, which makes Me able to deeply relate to the need and importance of privacy and discretion.

Regarding the screening process, there are options designed to respect your privacy. If you prefer not to share personal information, you can choose to use references from other providers. This way, I won't require any of your personal details. However, if you're entirely new to this and references are not an option, you will need to verify your identity with Me. This involves taking a picture of yourself with your ID next to your face, with the option to blur your address. I am the only one that sees this information. I want to emphasize that this photo doesn't go anywhere, and it's promptly deleted after our session.

Additionally, My email address is encrypted, and if you use an encrypted email service yourself, our communication will benefit from end-to-end encryption. I also offer the option to send information through Signal, further ensuring end-to-end encryption for your privacy.

Regarding privacy during our sessions, I exclusively use private and discreet play spaces that are not commercial dungeons or accessible to the general public.

I don't permit photos or videos during sessions, unless a client specifically requests them. Even then, I prefer to do them at the session's end to avoid disrupting the flow. Consent is a mutual value, and just as I respect your boundaries, I ask the same in return—please don't take photos or videos of Me or request activities from My hard limits list, just as I wouldn't push on things that are clear boundaries for you.

If you have any inquiries about these spaces or any concerns about discretion and privacy in general, please don't hesitate to reach out via email. Ensuring comfort and confidentiality is a top priority, not just for my clients, but also for Myself. I'm here to address any questions or concerns you may have. Your well-being and peace of mind are of utmost importance.

No full service, which includes any form of sexual activities, including anal sex, pegging, edging, or any acts ending in "-job." I do not engage in full nudity or switch. I don't offer FTT.

I do not offer any illegal services in the state of New York. These limits are in place to ensure clarity and boundaries within our interactions. Please respect My boundaries as I respect yours.

It's rare for Me to have immediate availability as my schedule is usually booked well in advance, often with a lead time of a week or more. I tend to decline same-day requests as I prioritize dedicating substantial time to careful session planning, guaranteeing that you have the best possible experience in a tailored play space that aligns with your unique preferences.

However, if you are able to complete the booking form, screening, and deposit process before 12:00 pm, it might be feasible to schedule a session for the late afternoon or evening of the same day. This option offers a more flexible timeframe for those who can meet the necessary requirements promptly.

Maintaining a structured schedule is crucial for Me, and to ensure that sessions are properly reserved and confirmed, I require a 25% deposit. This deposit serves a dual purpose - it contributes to covering the cost of the session space and secures your chosen time slot. Please keep in mind that your session is only considered confirmed once the deposit has been paid. This policy helps Me manage My schedule effectively and ensures that both you and I can prepare for a successful and enjoyable session.

I provide free phone consultations for clients who have successfully completed my booking form, undergone the screening process, and submitted a deposit. While I'm eager to discuss your desires, My schedule has limited availability, and I must prioritize individuals who are genuinely committed to securing a booking. Feel free to reach out with any questions via email at any time. My inbox is always open to address your inquiries.

I offer outcall services exclusively to clients with whom I've previously had an incall session at one of my designated playspaces. For first-time clients, our initial session will take place at one of my incall locations in Manhattan or Brooklyn. Please note that if you've been screened using references, an outcall will require ID verification as an additional security measure.

I completely understand that unexpected events can occur. However, when it comes to cancellations made on the day before or the day of the scheduled session, the deposit will be forfeited. This is because, at that point, I have already incurred non-refundable expenses for reserving the session space.

On a more flexible note, if you provide more than 48 hours' notice for a cancellation, the deposit can be transferred to another date for a session to be held within the following 30 days. This policy allows for some leeway, ensuring that you still have the opportunity to utilize your deposit for a future session.

If you cancel on the same day, it gives me a chance to rearrange My schedule or book another client. Yet, if there's no communication or advance notice at all (a "No Call, No Show”) I consider this a lack of respect for My time, and in accordance with my policy, the deposit will be lost.

To proceed with rescheduling after such a cancellation and to ensure that My time is respected, the full payment for the session you missed will be required to proceed.

Once the full session amount has been paid, we can then discuss and arrange a new session time. This policy underscores the significance of honoring commitments and maintaining respect for My time and schedule.

I currently don't have any plans for tours, as my primary focus is on providing exceptional experiences to My existing clients in NYC.

However, if I do decide to go on tour in the future, my newsletter will be the first place where I make the announcement. So, don't hesitate to sign up for updates if you're interested in staying informed about any upcoming tours or events.

Once you've completed the form accurately, I will review it, and if I believe our interests align, I'll respond within 48 hours. I will clearly outline 3 steps to confirm your booking.

1. Choose a time and date that works

2. Provide ID verification (if you haven’t provided references in the form)

3. Review options for deposit method

My name is Vanessa Vice. I contain multitudes and My honorific varies depending on the context, my mood, and the nature of our dynamic or scene. Some of my favorite honorifics include Goddess, Queen and Mistress but I reserve these titles for situations where a clear dynamic has been established.

I am selective when it comes to choosing submissives, and only those who have the privilege of playing with Me will have the opportunity to address Me with an honorific that I choose.

Additionally, I believe in open and respectful communication, and I will never assume a client's role or call them by any name before taking the time to connect with them and understand their motivations for submission.

Perhaps. It's essential to understand that both professional and lifestyle dynamics require substantial time and effort. It's important to understand that becoming a lifestyle sub is not a means to receive free sessions; it primarily involves a commitment to service.

A lifestyle dynamic typically evolves naturally, based on trust and familiarity that develops over time. To progress in this direction, starting with paid sessions is the initial step. For those interested in domestic servitude, it's important to understand that this is an intimate and highly personal dynamic that must be earned through the building of trust and experience.

Of course, I'd be delighted to receive a gift! It's a wonderful way to show your respect and admiration. I have a wishlist page with a range of options, including gear, clothing, and service gifts. Feel free to take a look and choose something you think I'd appreciate. Your thoughtful gesture means a lot to Me, and I appreciate your respect and adoration.

I stand at 5'10" barefoot, and when I wear heels, I can easily surpass 6' in height. In my tallest heels, I can reach up to 6'5", which can be particularly exciting for those with giantess fantasies. My feet are a size 10.

Born and raised in London… Book a session to hear it ;)